UD Tree Memorial

On a beautiful sunny fall afternoon on November 1st (All Souls' Day) over 65 friends and family gathered at UD for a memorial mass service, led by Fr John Putka, followed by a Buckeye Tree dedication in Pete's memory.

Dan Rodenfels and Richie Witka planned and organized a lovely memorial service, a "ghetto style" party on the Sigma Chi lawn (thanks to Greg Rodenfels), and a smashing (so I am told!) Pete Gruber night at BW's. It was a day full of grace for us- the opportunity to remember and pray for Pete, the opportunity to see the friends that Pete loved so much, and the opportunity to see the planted tree and memorial plaque. The tree sits next to the new PAC in bird's eye view of all the places Pete lived while at Dayton. We like the location and found his peace there.

Paul said the entire day was 'life coming full circle" for us. And that it was. As we headed to the tree for dedication after the mass, I found two of my own UD college roommates waiting there for us, having traveled a distance. And parents of many of Pete's friends. And Pete's UD friends from all across the country. It was a precious and heart wrenching sight. We were comforted to know how loved our son was and what wonderful friends he enjoyed.

I kept thinking of the UD mission - "Learn, Lead and Serve". I believe UD should be very proud of the class of 2004. You all have certainly embraced those principles and you are living them everyday in the work you do and love you carry for each other and extend to others.

Bob, Paul and I are honored by your tribute to Pete and your love for him. We thank you for memorializing his life on campus and hope you will visit his tree whenever you return to Dayton. I hope you can keep his memory alive in your hearts as he had a passion for UD life and friends.

Much love to our fellow Flyers,
Helene